Uncategorized | Misattunement

WHAT IS MISATTUNEMENT?

The cumulative effect of chronic misattunement is a pervasive "regulation disorder" that affects all six important systems, not just individual human beings.

In the Individual: Emotions are not reliable signals but overwhelming, often misdirecting, forces to be managed. Gone is the ability to differentiate between their primary feelings and their secondary protective emotions. They become disembodied and often relate painfully with their own body. Parts dominate in a world where Self is illusive, and Self-leadership under developed & expressed.

In Relationships: Their interactions are driven by fear, misdirected or supressed anger, and chaos and rigidity. This results in the four coercive quadrants as Betty Martin outlines (Martyr, Pusher, Thief, and Victim), where "power over" others in an attempt to get their needs met while posturing that something else is happening.

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BRILLIANT MISDIRECTORS

There are those who would happily have you make huge decisions while dysregulated, who market to convince because it's in their interest, cloaking their efforts in 'serving'. Their tactics are hard to miss once you understand The Wheel of Consent (thank you Betty Martin for your genius). Learn more to empower yourself.

HUMAN DEVELOPMENT

The dance of attunement and misattunement begin from the moment we exist the womb, some might even say before. Today, the language and science of attunement gives us unparalled perspective on the fundamental foces of love & connection that underpin our whole universe.

THE ARC OF ATTUNEMENT

DID YOU KNOW YOU HAVE 8 SENSES?

SELF-LEADERSHIP WHEEL

See how you're doing today with the essential 8 C's of Self-Leadership (thank you IFS) - take this free quiz before making decisions!

ATTUNED ATTACHMENT

All insecure relating falls under the umbrella of chronic, compounding misattunement (unless someone is on the journey to earning secure attachment through attunement)

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LTHE WAY FORWARD

Indviduals

Chronic misattunement impacts everything in your internal system (body keeps the score)

Intimacy

Is chronic misattuenment a painful & changable pattern in your close relationships?

Practice Owners

A thriving business demands masterful business and marketing attunement, otherwise needs go unmet.

Citizens

Our country (we're American) has never needed attuned citizens more #helpforamerica

LTOOLS & RESOURCES

ATTUNE TOGETHER™

Free global community of individuals, clinicians and leaders committed to self-attunement and collective attunement & capacitation

SELF-ATTUNE™

A challenge, and a course that has the power to catapult you onto the most effective path of growth possible for your particulars, while making you resistant to brilliant misdirectors who typically disguise themselves until it's too late.

MARKETING ATTUNEMENT™

What is attuned marketing, and what's coercive? It's not always as obvious as you may think, but there's a sure fire way to discern and decifer who's empowering others and who's manipulating them under the guise of helping and authority.

BUSINESS ATTUNEMENT™

There's only two types of influence, really. One empowers, uplifts, capacitates and creates. The other dominates, forces, stiffles and dysregulates. Are you using Attuned Influence™ or something else?

the HELPING COLLECTIVE™

Harness the power of a small group of exceptional clinicians and a powerhouse strategy for meeting the market where it is, and leading others while capacitating their own self-leadership.

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For self-attunement, problem solving and identifying the misattunement patters in your relationships (and how to repair them for growth instead of chronic compounding friction).